Holy Week is not just the countdown to Easter brunch. It is the most important week of the liturgical year — the week that explains and changes everything.
This is the time the Church slows down on purpose and invites us to slow down with her. The liturgies are longer. The themes are weighty. But that depth shouldn’t feel like a burden on families; it is an invitation.
This is the week when your home can become more fully what it already is: a domestic Church.
Whether you have toddlers or teens, living liturgically as a family doesn’t require elaborate planning. It simply means allowing the rhythm of the Church to shape your time together. There are so many beautiful and rich traditions and activities families can share to “live” Holy Week.
Not sure where to start? Here’s a practical guide to help your family enter into this Holy Week with peace and intentionality.
Setting the scene: Let the rhythm shape your home
Holy Week moves with intention, and your home can reflect that movement. Children are wired for ritual. They love symbols, meaningful activities, and stories that unfold slowly and feel tangible. Holy Week offers all of that — not as performance, but as participation.
The best way to experience Holy Week is through the richness of the different liturgies, where the prayers, songs, and symbolism tell the story in a way unlike any other. If you can, try to attend at least one or more as a family.
Even if bedtime ends up later for once or your littles don’t seem to be listening, children may not articulate it, but they will feel the shift in the atmosphere, and that itself is a powerful teaching tool.
The next part is letting that richness flow into your home in simple gestures and activities throughout these holy days. Some age-appropriate themes to keep in mind:
For little ones: Jesus loves you this much.
For elementary ages: Focus on friendship, sacrifice, and courage.
For teens: Talk about suffering, injustice, and how Christ transforms both.
Holy Week with kids will usually not look like a monastery retreat, but the paschal mystery taking place can be understood and commemorated by even the tiniest listeners.
Palm Sunday
On Palm Sunday, keep the celebration alive after Mass by teaching your children to fold blessed palms into small crosses. Or simply display everyone’s palms in a vase or tied with ribbon on the table or mantle.
Enjoy a special dessert or fun activity as a reminder that even with the solemn days approaching, we still rejoice in Christ our King.
Holy Monday-Tuesday: Entering the growing darkness
As the week unfolds, slow the pace. Lower the daily noise and bustle of your home if you can, even if just for 30 minutes in the mornings or evenings. Use this time to clean the house, plan for any Easter dinner or activity shopping, or other busy-work before the Triduum liturgies begin.
You can plan a simple color progression throughout the week, either in your clothes or table settings and home decor:
Purple early in the week
Red or black on Good Friday
Bare tables or simplified décor on Holy Saturday
White or gold linens for Easter
Involve your children in making a gameplan for the rest of the week, whether it’s checking the parish liturgy schedule, or prepping activities for the following days. Tell them that this week is different from all others, and they get to play a special part in it.
Spy Wednesday: Small choices matter
On Spy Wednesday, we remember Judas’ betrayal.
Hide 30 coins around the house and invite your children to search for them. As they find each one, talk about how betrayal often begins in small, hidden choices. At family prayer time, invite them to “return” the coins as a sign of choosing loyalty to Jesus.
It is a gentle but powerful lesson: Love is built on daily fidelity.
Consider attending a Tenebrae service if your Church has one. You can also create a simple candlelit prayer time at home. Light several candles and after each short Scripture reading or prayer about the Passion, extinguish one.
Holy Thursday: Stay with Him
Holy Thursday is the night Jesus gave us the Eucharist and the priesthood, before entering the garden to prepare for His passion.
Try making dinner a little more special today to remember the Last Supper, whether it’s using the good dishes, lighting a candle, or using a favorite recipe.
If you can make Mass that evening, prepare your children ahead of time. Explain that this is the night Jesus gave us the Mass. Notice the washing of the feet or the altar being stripped.
Afterward, consider making a short nighttime visit to the altar of repose. Whether you stay five minutes or an hour, it matters. Whisper to your children, “We’re keeping Jesus company.” If it’s doable, you can even make a mini pilgrimage by visiting a few local churches where the Eucharist is in repose.
Before bed, try a simple Garden of Gethsemane prayer time. Set a timer for five minutes. No talking. Just quiet presence to stay with Jesus and love Him back.
Good Friday: Entering the cross
Good Friday is quiet and stark.
Keep the morning slower. Limit unnecessary noise. Choose one hour — or 30 minutes for younger children — of intentional silence. No screens or music. Just stillness, and maybe some Holy Week coloring pages or a picture book for toddlers to try to use quietly. Explain that the world felt different on this day.
Pray the Stations of the Cross or read the Passion narrative, and bring them to life at home. A simple “Living Stations” in your backyard or living room can be incredibly meaningful. Children can dress up and recreate each station.
If possible, attend the Good Friday service where you can venerate the cross. Participation helps to internalize the story. If you can’t make it, consider an hour of silence or praying the Divine Mercy Chaplet as a family at 3 p.m. — the hour Our Lord took His last breath.
Even though the day is somber and sad, reassure your children that hope is coming.
Holy Saturday: Learning to wait
Holy Saturday is often the most overlooked day of Holy week, but it’s one of the most beautiful.
The Church waits at the tomb, and this waiting is sacred.
Pray a decade of the rosary together, reflecting on Our Lady’s hope. She teaches us how to wait when everything feels uncertain. Take a quiet walk as a family, reflecting on or sharing about how the past few days have felt. You can also do this as you prep Easter outfits, dye eggs, or finish any cooking or cleaning for Easter Sunday.
You might also decorate a large family candle with the current year written on it — your own small Paschal candle. Light it at Easter dinner and maybe on baptism anniversaries throughout the year.
Before leaving for the Easter Vigil that night, talk to your children about what to expect: It begins in darkness, there are many readings, maybe first sacraments for some; it’s long, but it’s so worth it.
If you’re not attending the Easter Vigil, you can still create some of its excitement and anticipation at home by lighting a small bonfire or candle at sunset. Read the Resurrection Gospel as darkness falls and let the contrast speak.
Let Easter erupt
After the Easter Vigil Mass, extend the celebration briefly when you get home — even if it’s late. A midnight celebration with ice cream or cake, while unleashing a chorus of “alleluias,” creates a family tradition as joyful as it is memorable.
If you attend Mass Sunday morning, gather everyone in one room before breakfast or baskets. Light a candle and have someone proclaim, “He is risen!” and everyone else respond,“He is risen indeed! Alleluia!”
You can then cheer, turn on joyful sacred music, open curtains wide, and let the house fill with light. Make it dramatic, joyful and loud and set the tone for a day of Resurrection celebration.
A living faith
You don’t have to do everything this Holy Week. But if you can choose a few meaningful acts to practice as a family, you have a unique opportunity to build memories rooted in eternity.
From the incense and candles of the liturgies, to the scripture reading and unusual quietness at home, this is one of the best times to feel our faith alive among us. And our children can understand, appreciate, and remember that more than we think.
When you allow your home to follow the Church’s rhythm for this week, your routine may feel different. However, together as a family, you can reflect on how true love costs something, recognizing it always prevails, even over death.
This Holy Week, walk with Jesus from the garden to the Cross to the empty tomb. This journey changes everything and it can transform your family, too.